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	<title>Oblates of St. Benedict &#187; Methods of Praying</title>
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		<title>How to Pray Like Jesus</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[During a recent talk, Fr. Thomas Richter explained that praying like Jesus requires one thing: to desire for God to have his way in your life. As the vocation director for the Bismarck diocese, it would seem that Fr. Tom knows about answered prayers. Bismarck has the second highest per capita vocations in the country, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://oblatesosbbelmont.org/wp-content/uploads/2009/08/praying-web.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-4079" title="praying-web" src="http://oblatesosbbelmont.org/wp-content/uploads/2009/08/praying-web-150x150.jpg" alt="" width="150" height="150" /></a>During a recent talk, Fr. Thomas Richter explained that praying like Jesus requires one thing: to desire for God to have his way in your life.</p>
<p>As the vocation director for the Bismarck diocese, it would seem that Fr. Tom knows about answered prayers. Bismarck has the second highest per capita vocations in the country, up from twenty-fourth in 2003 and twelfth in 2004.  But Fr. Tom would say it’s not a matter of God answering his prayers as it is for him to be answering God's will in his life.  They key to prayer, according to him, is to get out of the way.</p>
<div>Fr. Tom identified the important elements for Christian prayer. “First, you can only pray to the degree you have faith,” he said. “In order to grow in prayer, you have to grow in faith. No matter how many prayer techniques you use, if it’s not in faith, you’re not praying.”</div>
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<div>“Second, the heart and soul of faith is this: God is your father and everything that you could possibly desire, he already wishes to give you. God is your father and he can only desire what is best for you. Prayer becomes a grace activity where I allow God to act, where I allow God to do the good for me that he wishes to do. “</div>
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<div>Fr. Tom stated that since God wants what is good for us, prayer is about allowing God to remove the obstacles so that he can do all the good he wants in our lives. Too often, people fall into the trap of praying to get God to consent to what they want.  “That is not Christian prayer,” he said.</div>
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<div><strong>Give God his Way</strong></div>
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<div>“God has all kinds of good things he wants to do and Christian prayer is God getting us to consent to him.  Do you see the difference?” He asked.</div>
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<div>Fr. Tom pointed out that coming up with a plan and then asking God to help us with it, is a very limited way to pray.  “No one in the history of mankind ever asked God to become a man and come and save us,” he pointed out. “We never would have thought of it. That was all God’s activity.”</div>
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<div>According to Fr. Tom, the key is how you look at what God is doing in your life. “What God desires every minute of every day is to make you like Christ,” he said.  Quoting St. John of the Cross, he added,  “God acts for one purpose—to make our souls great.”</div>
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<div>For parents, Fr. Tom advised for us to desire for God to get his way with our family. He instructed us to pray, “ God, I give you permission to do whatever you want with me, even if it makes me suffer. May your kingdom come, may your will be done.”  Fr. Tom explained that such a prayer describes the Blessed Mother’s prayer: “I am the handmaid of the Lord, let it be done unto me according to your word.’”</div>
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<div>Fr. Tom stressed that the husband needs to fall in love with the desire to be like Christ.  “The wife cannot be under his mission until that happens. Otherwise, she’s submitting to someone other than Christ,” he said. “And then, she’s not in a Christian marriage.”</div>
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<div>He said that praying like Jesus will ignite enthusiasm because your thoughts will be, “I cannot wait to see what the Father is going to give to me today!”</div>
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<div>For some people, such a prayer can be scary or not seem like enough, so Fr. Tom suggested asking God to remove obstacles that prevent you from desiring God’s will.  In addition to total surrender, he brought up that there is the question of intercessory prayer and asking God for your intentions.  He explained that people came to Jesus for healing and God wants us to ask him for help. The key, according to Fr. Tom, is that in all your petitions, your greatest desire should be for God’s will—for you to desire to be like Christ.</div>
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<div><strong>The Treasured Place</strong></div>
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<div>Often, your own self will can interfere with your desire to do God’s will.  Fr. Tom explained that the place in which God can work most powerfully is “the treasured place”—the place where you need God the most. It could be an insecurity, or a need, or some other area where you recognize your need for God.  At such moments, he said, “God pulls you to places where there is an unfilled desire and you have to rely on him acting in your life.”</div>
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<div>In the end, he said that since God does only what is good for us, we can trust that God will bring good out of all things for those who want him to get his way.</div>
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<div>To download the entire the talk given to the Catholic Courage group, December 30, 2011 in Bismarck, ND, go to: <a href="http://www.zshare.net/audio/98195794b73ff55d/" target="_blank">http://www.zshare.net/audio/98195794b73ff55d/</a><br />
[<a href="http://www.pattimaguirearmstrong.com/2012/01/how-to-pray-like-jesus.html" target="_blank">original post</a>]</div>
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		<title>Attention in Prayer</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 08 Oct 2011 08:26:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[It may be taken for granted as a rule that the chief benefit which we derive from any private prayer will be in proportion to the attention and fervor which we bring to it when saying it. Without attention to what we are saying or doing, our prayers are apt to become a mere mechanical, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://oblatesosbbelmont.org/wp-content/uploads/2011/05/Fatima-August-Prayer-web.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-7083" title="Fatima-August-Prayer-web" src="http://oblatesosbbelmont.org/wp-content/uploads/2011/05/Fatima-August-Prayer-web-150x150.jpg" alt="" width="150" height="150" /></a>It may be taken for granted as a rule that the chief benefit which we derive from any private prayer will be in proportion to the attention and fervor which we bring to it when saying it. Without attention to what we are saying or doing, our prayers are apt to become a mere mechanical, parrotlike prattle, and so, largely, if not totally, devoid of value and merit. In fact, even sin may be involved, if our distraction is willful.</p>
<p>Sustained attention to some prayers may be difficult, especially if they are long and often repeated. But this is hardly true of the Rosary, wherein is so much change and variety of thought in both the vocal and the mental prayers. Here the picture and the scene are constantly changing for us, and each one is so attractive and absorbing that we cannot take in its complete beauty and benefit before it is followed by another. And the prayers and mysteries are not repeated so often as to lose their objective freshness and interest.</p>
<p>Much, of course, will depend on our personal interest and liking. It is not hard or wearisome to fix our attention on what we like and in what we have a personal interest.  For example, if we really love a person, we want to know all we can about that person—his or her country, place of birth, home, circumstances, youth, maturity, life, activities, fortune, and the rest. It is a matter of common experience that we never tire recalling and thinking of these things when there is question of those we really love.</p>
<p>All this should apply pre-eminently to Our Lord and His Blessed Mother. This is why the Rosary and its mysteries should have an ever-fresh interest and attraction for us. Moreover, thoughts and knowledge about holy people, places, and things tend to excite in us holy feelings and sentiments, and these in turn tend to express themselves in external holy actions and deeds.</p>
<p><em>Spiritual Riches of the Rosary</em>, pp. 11-12<br />
Charles J. Callan, OP &amp; John F. McConnell, MM</p>
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		<title>Silence allows people to hear God</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 14 Aug 2011 08:51:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Castel Gandolfo, Italy, Aug 10, 2011 / 12:04 pm (CNA/EWTN News).- We need to make time for silence in our lives if we are to pray and listen to God, said Pope Benedict XVI in his weekly general audience, August 10. “Silence is the environment that best promotes recollection, listening to God, meditation,” he told [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://oblatesosbbelmont.org/wp-content/uploads/2009/04/prayer-silence_web.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-1818" title="prayer-silence_web" src="http://oblatesosbbelmont.org/wp-content/uploads/2009/04/prayer-silence_web-135x150.jpg" alt="" width="135" height="150" /></a>Castel Gandolfo, Italy, Aug 10, 2011 / 12:04 pm (<a href="http://www.catholicnewsagency.com/" target="_self">CNA/EWTN News</a>).- We need to make time for silence in our lives if we are to pray and listen to God, said Pope Benedict XVI in his weekly general audience, August 10.</p>
<p>“Silence is the environment that best promotes recollection, listening to God, meditation,” he told pilgrims gathered at his summer residence in the hilltop town of Castel Gandolfo, 15 miles south of Rome.</p>
<p>“The very fact that a taste of silence leaves us, so to speak, to ‘fill’ the silence predisposes us to prayer.”</p>
<p>It is for this reason, noted the Pope, that monks and nuns have traditionally established their communities “in particularly beautiful places, in the countryside, in hills, in mountainous valleys, along lakes or seas, or even on small islands.”</p>
<p>“These sites combine two very important elements for the contemplative life: the beauty of creation, which refers to that of the Creator, and the silence guaranteed by their remoteness from the cities and highways of communication.”</p>
<p>The Pope charted the history of man’s quest for God – and God’s quest for man – conducted through silence and prayer.</p>
<p>From the Old Testament, he noted that God spoke to the prophet Elijah on Mount Sinai in “the gentle breeze” rather than through wind, earthquake or fire.</p>
<p>He then highlighted the thirteenth-century life of St. Clare of Assisi - whose feast day is tomorrow – observing how she created a community at San Damiano on the outskirts of Assisi, “living on prayer and small jobs.”</p>
<p>“God speaks in silence, but you need to know how to listen,” said the Pope. “For that, monasteries are oases in which God speaks to humanity; in them one finds the cloister, a symbolic place, because it is an enclosed space but open to the sky.”</p>
<p>Hence, when we are “looking at things from a spiritual perspective,” the spirit of monastic places actually provides the “backbone of the world!” he said.</p>
<p>Pope Benedict suggested it was “no coincidence” that so many people, especially during times of rest, choose to stay for a few days in convents or monasteries, since “the soul, thank God, has its own needs!”</p>
<p>The Pope then concluded his address by pointing to the Virgin Mary as the person who can best “teach us to love silence and prayer.” He finished the audience by leading pilgrims in the recitation of the Our Father and imparting his apostolic blessing.</p>
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		<title>Prayer requires both the right time and the right place</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Anyone who wishes to pray must choose not only the right place but also the right time. A time of leisure is best and most convenient, the deep silence when others are asleep is particularly suitable, for prayer will then be freer and purer. 'Arise at the first watch of the night, and pour out [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://oblatesosbbelmont.org/wp-content/uploads/2009/08/Bernard-of-Clairvaux_web.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-4095" title="Bernard-of-Clairvaux_web" src="http://oblatesosbbelmont.org/wp-content/uploads/2009/08/Bernard-of-Clairvaux_web-150x150.jpg" alt="" width="150" height="150" /></a>Anyone who wishes to pray must choose not only the right place but also the right time. A time of leisure is best and most convenient, the deep silence when others are asleep is particularly suitable, for prayer will then be freer and purer. 'Arise at the first watch of the night, and pour out your heart like water before the face of the Lord, your God'. How secretly prayer goes up in the night, witnessed only by God and the holy angel who received it to present it at the heavenly altar!</p>
<p>Bernard of Clairvaux</p>
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		<title>5 iPhone Apps for the Holy Week</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 28 Mar 2010 09:29:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[If you plan to make good use of your iPhone or iPod Touch this Holy Week, you might want to install these applications: 1. Way of the Cross – contains colorful images and the traditional text of the fourteen Stations of the Cross. 2. Via Crucis – similar to the the application above, except that [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-5167" title="Jesus_Dali" src="http://oblatesosbbelmont.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/Jesus_Dali.jpg" alt="" width="173" height="180" />If you plan to make good use of your iPhone or iPod Touch this Holy Week, you  might want to install these applications:</p>
<p>1. <strong><a title="Way of the Cross" href="http://itunes.apple.com/WebObjects/MZStore.woa/wa/viewSoftware?id=302872732&amp;mt=8">Way  of the Cross</a></strong> – contains colorful images and the traditional text of  the fourteen Stations of the Cross.</p>
<p>2. <strong><a title="Via Crucis" href="http://itunes.apple.com/WebObjects/MZStore.woa/wa/viewSoftware?id=309637466&amp;mt=8">Via  Crucis</a></strong> – similar to the the application above, except that the  prayers and meditations used in this app are from the Vatican website.</p>
<p>3. <strong><a title="iConfess" href="http://itunes.apple.com/WebObjects/MZStore.woa/wa/viewSoftware?id=307804649&amp;mt=8">iConfess</a></strong> – a guidebook to the Sacrament of Reconciliation for Catholics.  It covers such  important topics as the Ten Commandments, Examination of Conscience and the  basics of confession (what, why, how).</p>
<p>4. <strong><a title="Cards for Easter" href="http://itunes.apple.com/WebObjects/MZStore.woa/wa/viewSoftware?id=307861871&amp;mt=8">Cards  for Easter</a></strong> – a collection of 11 Easter cards that users can send  out through email directly from the iPhone or iPod Touch.</p>
<p>5. <strong><a title="iMissal" href="http://itunes.apple.com/WebObjects/MZStore.woa/wa/viewSoftware?id=307312434&amp;mt=8">iMissal</a></strong> – the first and so far the only Catholic Missal/Missalette app  for iPhone and  iPod Touch. It features a full calendar of the liturgical seasons, the Mass  readings for the whole liturgical cycle, over 50 of the most popular Catholic  prayes and of course the Order of Mass.</p>
<p>by <a title="Posts by Fr. Stephen, MSC" href="http://stephencuyos.com/author/administrator/">Fr. Stephen, MSC</a></p>
<p>Originally posted at: <a href="http://stephencuyos.com/">http://stephencuyos.com/</a></p>
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